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¡¡¡¡FounderofSuccessNapoleonHillsaid:"Theself-confidence,managehumanuseandtheonlychanneluniverse,InfiniteIntelligenceisallthe'miracle'ofthefoundationofallscientificlawscannotbethebirthplaceofthemysteryofmiracles."healsosaidthatsuchathought-provokingwords:"Ifweanalyzethepersonalityofthoseoutstandingfigures,youwillseetheyhaveacommoncharacteristic:theystartworkbefore,alwaysfullybelieveinthemselvestheabilitytoremovealldifficultiesandobstacles,untilvictory!"
¡¡¡¡Indeed,inlargeparttopromoteconfidenceinaperson'ssuccess,manypeoplestartfromthehistoryweareallevident.Confidentpeoplefromdistresstorescue,youcanseethesuccessfulpeopleinthedarklight,cangivepeoplethepowerstruggle.Perhapsyoucouldsay:"Withconfidence,youhavehalfthesuccess."
¡¡¡¡Workthesametwopeople,self-confidenceofpeopleatworkinamorerelaxedwhentheAssociationofthewaythrough:Danggoodjobdone,wewillconsideritforourownstrength,intheeventShizaiwufacompletedThetask,thenthatmightbereallydifficulttaskinitself.Thelackofself-confidenceofpeoplewillbringsuccesstogoodluck,theabilitytonotfailastheirownhome.However,asthislittlepsychologicaldifference,althoughthetwospenttimeandenergyaresimilar,butoftenmoreself-confidentsideofthegainismuchgreater.
¡¡¡¡Howmanyscientistsathomeandabroad,especiallyinventors,whichisnottackledonhisownconfidenceinwhattheproject?Willfailagainandagainagainandagainarousedtheirfightingspirit-theythink:themorefailures,themoresuccessfulneardistance.Butconfidenceisnotaninnocentpersonwillbeattachedtothebody,firstofallwhohavegenuinetalent,thencanthereberealself-confidence,anduseitasanextremelyusefulpower.Emptyfullofconfidence,itwouldonlysayitispresumptuousBale.Thisso-called"confidence",notonlyfailedtopromotehumanprogress,butunfriendly.
¡¡¡¡Kingofthehimentatorsaid:"Thereisnorealthing,onlytheconfidence,thefutureisonlyone-dead,anddonefor."Thissentencesoundsexcessive,butinfacttheonlyself-confidenceifitisindeedaverydangerous.
¡¡¡¡Similarly,inourstudy,onlyself-confidenceisnotenough,self-confidenceandeffortsshouldbeorganicallycombined.Somestudentsoftenseetheoccasionoftheexamination,nottheleastbitnervous,confidentlyintotheexaminationroom.However,afterexamination,thispartofthestudentsinsomescoresofdeadlyaccuracy,andsomefractionisashamedtoseepeople.Thisseemsunreasonablethingisverysimple:thispartisbothakindofself-confidenceinstudents,butalsohardtostudyhard;asingleself-confidence,butdidnotpaytheeffort.Thesetwotypesofstudentsarefullofconfidenceseemstoexamination,butusuallynotthesameastheaccumulationofknowledge,differentconsequences.
¡¡¡¡So,welife,youshoulddofirstonefullofclassics,beforeaconfidentperson.Becauseconfidenceisjustavoidofpower,wanttobesuccessful,youhavetogiveconfidencetoattachto"hardwork"ontheburningofthemechanicalself-confidence,soconfidenceshouldforceittoplayout.
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¡¡¡¡Goodafternoon,HonorableJudges,LadiesandGentlemen,thetitleofmyspeechisDefeatmakesmemoreconfident.
¡¡¡¡Mostpeoplemaythinkthatdefeatisakindofobstaclethatpreventsyoufrombeingsuccessful.Quitethecontrary,Ibelievedefeatmakesmemoreconfident.
¡¡¡¡Asyoumayknow,ifyoucannotbeanexcellentloseryouwillneverwin.Everythinginmylifealwaysshowsbothmyadvantagesanddisadvantages.Ihavebeenenteringalotofcontests.Idon¡¯tcareabouttheresults,butfeelitismoreimportanttolearnsomethingduringtheprocess.AfterIfailedinthecontestseachtime,thejudgesalwaysgavemeusefulcommentsandsuggestionaddressingmyshortcomingsandhelpedmeimprovemyselfstepbystep.So,nowIammoreself-confidenttofaceanychallengesandbelieveIwillbethefinalwinnerinmylife.
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¡¡¡¡Manypeopleyearntobemoreself-confident.Yettheyhavenoideahowtoachievethatobjective.Theylookatotherswhohavethegiftandsay,¡°Heythat¡¯swhatIwant.Ihatefeelingunsureofmyself.IwishIcouldstopobsessingaboutwhatothersthinkofmeandquitworryingaboutdisappointingotherpeople.Iwanttostopanguishingovermydecisionsandtorturingmyselfaboutmymistakes.Ithinkitwouldbesogreattofeelself-assured,holdmyheaduphighandstandtall.I¡¯veneverbeenself-confident.IwishtherewereawayIcouldbe.¡±
¡¡¡¡Thereisaway.Youdon¡¯thavetobebornwithself-confidence.Self-confidencecangrowandflourishandripenandblossomuntilyouactuallycometofeelasthoughthereisadifferentpersoninsideofyou.Herearesomeinsightsthatmightfacilitatethequest.
¡¡¡¡Learnwhataself-confidentpersonisreallylike.Theyarenotcocky,know-it-allpeoplewhodon¡¯tcarewhatanybodyelsethinks.Theyhavetheirdoubts.Andmakemistakes.Andarefarfromperfect.However,theyarewillingtoacknowledgetheirinadequacieswithoutdwellingonthem.Theydothisbymaintainingasenseofhumor,puttingproblemsinperspective,andfocusingmainlyonwhatthey¡¯vedoneright,notwrong.
¡¡¡¡Thoughself-confidentpeopledobelieveinthemselves,theydon¡¯ttrytosuffocateotherswiththeirideasorbeliefs.Theyareconfidentinwhattheyknownotonlybecausetheyread,learnandthinkbutalsobecausetheyrespecttheirinstinct,intuitionandtheuniquebodyofknowledgethatthey¡¯vedevelopedbylivinglife.Theyrealizethatonedoesn'thavetobelabeledan¡°expert¡±tobelieveinone'sowntruths.
¡¡¡¡Self-confidentpeopledon¡¯tunderminetheirownworthbycomparingthemselveswithothers,onlytoconcludethattheyaren¡¯t¡°goodenough¡±.Theyappreciatetheirstrengthsandaccomplishmentsandcanacknowledge,withoutembarrassment,theirweaknesses.Theydon¡¯tliveinthe¡°victim¡±position.Evenifsomethingreallybadhasoccurred,theyturnitintoachallenge,rememberingtobegratefulforthelittlethingsinlife.
¡¡¡¡Self-confidentpeoplelettheworldknowwhotheyare.Iftheywantsomethingbadlyenough,theyknowtheyhaveeveryrightto¡°goforit.¡±Yet,theyalsoknowthatthepathwillrarelybeeasy.Mistakes,blundersandfailuresarepartofthelearningprocess.Theyseektolearnfromtheirmistakesanddonotwastetimetorturingthemselvesoverwhat¡°couldhavebeen¡±.
¡¡¡¡Self-confidentpeoplearenotobstinatepeople.Iftheyhaveanideaaboutsomethinganditdiffersfromthewayanotherpersonisthinkingaboutit,theywillusuallytrytolookatitfromthatperson¡¯spointofview,seewhyitmakessensetothem.Yet,aconfidentperson¡¯ssenseofselfisgrounded.Itdoesnotblowinthewind.Theirideasdonotfluctuatebasedonwhatothersdeemareimportant.
¡¡¡¡Ihopetheseinsightsarehelpfultoyou.Ifso,perhapsonedayyouwillbeabletosaywhattheactressPhyllisRashadoncesaid,simplybuteloquently,¡±IamjustmyselfandwhoIamisalot.¡±
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